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If at first you don’t succeed. . .

Home » Writing » If at first you don’t succeed. . .

In: Writing on: August 20, 2026

Last year, my daughter brought me this lovely puzzle from her visit to Monet’s house and gardens. 

I love puzzles, and while I could tell from the picture it would be quite a challenge, I felt I was up for it. 

Only the puzzle’s dimensions didn’t fit my puzzle table. 

After much dithering, I bought a separate tabletop puzzle board that seemed to be the right size. When it arrived, I began. 

The problem is, I didn’t get very far! All the colors were so similar. And many simply blended in with the light gray felt background of the puzzle board. Ugh. Plus, that board wasn’t as sturdy as my puzzle table. And the drawers for the pieces were smaller and harder to slide in and out. 

Still, I persevered. 

Until we got busy. And the barely outlined puzzle sitting in my living room drove me crazy. So one day I eased the flaps over the board and carried it to my bedroom, intending to slide it beneath my bed and give myself some time away from it.  

Only it didn’t fit flat through the doorframe. And when I tilted it. . . 

I’m sure you can imagine.

I shoved the mussed up board and all the pieces under my bed. And forgot about it. Mostly. 

Except failing at something—especially something I enjoy and consider myself good at—didn’t sit well. Now, with a few months of little to no travel ahead, I finally pulled the puzzle out again. I salvaged as many of the already put together pieces as I could. I got rid of the puzzle board I didn’t like. And I cleared off my breakfast bar and set up the puzzle there—the black countertops offering a nice contrast to the mostly pastel pieces.

I began again. 

I’ve already made more progress this time than last time. And I feel more hopeful that I will reach my goal. 

I’m glad I put the puzzle away when I was frustrated. I’m glad I took a break from it for several months. But I’m also glad that when at first I didn’t succeed, I decided to try again! 

Of course, this principal can apply to so many things in life. It certainly did with my writing! After I finished my first novel, back in 2002, I went to a conference and pitched it to editors and agents. When I got all the rejections, I put that one away and started again. Another finished novel. More rejections. Another completed novel. And another. Four total tucked in a drawer before I sold my first book, Wings of a Dream, to Bethany House. I stand in my office and look at that book cover when I need to remember that it never hurts to try again. 

Have you put aside anything lately that you need to pick up or pull out and try again? 

Tagged: puzzles, try again, writing

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  1. Melissa A. Alexander

    August 22, 2026 at 10:04 am

    I can relate to you girl! I’ve had a puzzle (1,000 pieces of the state of MONTANA) on my folding table for months now and seriously considering putting it back in the box! It is covered in dust and I’m tired of looking at it! Maybe for another time!!!! I normally can’t wait to finish a puzzle. I don’t know what my problem is this time. Maybe my stack of TBR books are distracting me. I have a box full!!!!

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    • D'Ann Mateer

      August 24, 2026 at 9:39 am

      Oh, I get it about the TBR distracting you! Especially when a puzzle feels impossible. When I’m working on a puzzle I tend to listen to audiobooks–either bought or from the library. It’s a great way to read and work on a puzzle! 🙂

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  2. Cheryl A.

    August 22, 2026 at 10:16 am

    I had a 1,000 piece puzzle of New York City. Hardest puzzle I ever worked for sure and took me a L O N G time!! I hated it in the beginning but about 3/4ths of the way through I had almost all of the Statue of Liberty done and lots of other sections, like you’re doing Anne and finally was enthused to get it done and had to tear myself away because I wanted it finished and then when I did there was 1 piece extra and 1 missing!!! Go figure…..I laugh now but it wasn’t funny then.

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    • D'Ann Mateer

      August 24, 2026 at 9:40 am

      Oh, my! That would be frustrating! I’m worried I’ll have a similar case as I’m still missing one edge piece and I’ve combed through the pieces so many times with no luck. But if that’s the only one I go without, I’ll be content. When it got messed up going through the door I might have missed one or two that the dog later found. 🙂

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  3. Dorothy Mays

    August 22, 2026 at 10:17 am

    I feel your pain! I also bought a large puzzle board and then couldn’t get it through the door to the spare room. I ended up buying a puzzle mat roll-up from Amazon. I was skeptical that they would work, but they really do! So long as you have the border of the puzzle complete, and around 25% of it filled it, it will roll up nicely and it super easy to store away.

    I hope you finish the Monet puzzle…. it sounds beautiful!

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    • D'Ann Mateer

      August 24, 2026 at 9:42 am

      Glad to know the puzzle mat works! I love my rolling puzzle table that fits through the doorways, but it wasn’t wide enough for this panoramic sized puzzle. Sigh. Next time I have one too bit for my table I’ll get that mat!

      Reply

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